Sep 30, 2011

Even the Elderly Need to be Understood

assalamualaikum and hye peoples!
all is well is it? :)
masuk hari ni, it has been 2 months since I met my abah and emak.
got a semester break for two weeks 
but I just can't make it sebab a lil' bit busy with another important matters
only God knows how I miss my abah, emak and adik2.
seems like I was in homesick mode eh? teehehehe.

baru dua bulan tak jumpa abah and emak, dah rasa macam ada something lack.
dan tibe2 buat aku terfikir :
"orang2 yang hantar ibu ayah kat rumah kebajikan and never pay them a visit, tak rasa rindu ke kat ibu ayah dyorang?"
okay, itu tepuk dada tanya hati buat yang terasa.

mak ayah tinggi suara sikit, dah nak lari rumah.
mak nasihat sepatah, sepuloh patah awak melawan balik cakap beliau
kadang-kadang kita asyik nak ibu ayah kita je paham kita,
reflect back ourselves
kita pernah tak cuba faham ibu dan ayah kita??
did you guys know elderly need to be understood too ? :)


in our religion(Islam), respecting elder people sangatlah digalakkan. is it?
even Allah do mentioned in Quran :
"Your Lord has commanded that you worship none but Him, and that you be 
kind to your parents..."
[Al-Isra' : 23-24]

maybe some of us rasa it was kind of difficult to understand elderly's struggles
since we haven't experienced their phase of life :)
sebab mereka lagi banyak makan garam dari kita.
while we may not understand on what they may be experiencing, 
maybe we can definitely try to be more sympathetic on their circumstance
and make an effort to understand them better peoples !! 
try to bare in our mind that family is our high focus in life
family first!(^.^")

soft reminder :
"what you did, you get back"
you disrespect your parents today, your kids disrespect you later
as easy as that
stop being a piece of crap!

okbai
assignments are waiting

-thanks for reading-

14 comments:

H.J said...

2 bulan dah homesick eh..??tak leh belajor oversea la macam ni..ahaha

BlogS of Hariyanto said...

great blog and nice share post :) i like it

JIJI YU said...

what u give u get back

khairul akmal bin azman said...

kasih syg mak bapa x tlh ditolak darab bahagi ke..mmg x terkire!

Cik Lin said...

very thankful to Allah sbb kurniakn parents yg sgt baik pd sy :)

IZYAN KAHER said...

H.J : itu pasal la MARA offer to UK terpaksa di cncel out . study local je ah . proud of being a malaysian . chehhhh!! :D

IZYAN KAHER said...

Hariyanto : tq :)

IZYAN KAHER said...

JIJI YU : yes . so true ^^

IZYAN KAHER said...

kay : tahu takpe! let's syg our abah and emak to the fullest !! :D

IZYAN KAHER said...

cik lin : alhamdulillah :) me oso ws blessed with a parents as yours .

khairul akmal bin azman said...

tgh dowang hidup ni..wat terbaik 4 dowang

Faaein Talip Roy said...

like this!.. hargai emak ayah kita.. kadang2 terfikir juga kenapa ada yang sanggup hantar parents mereka ke tempat macam tu.. moga2 kita tak jadi macam tu lah.. sayang emak ayah selagi mereka ada.. ^^,

assignment kasi siap yer dek!.. ehehe.. =P

budakijaupendek said...

orang yg tak pandai menghargai je sanggup ketepikan parents.
syg ibu bapa sy juge (:

ctk said...

jge la ibu bapa anda jika anda mahukan anak2 menjaga anda :D